Why do I do lose interest after telling someone my plans and goals?
November 10th, 2009I make plans and set goals and do not let anyone and obtain them.
But when I tell someone my plans or goal before I have obtained them I lose interested.
But I have read that a way to stay commited to a goal is to tell someone.
Sounds like to me u think people look down on what you want to be.
That happened to me for a while, I was very excited that I was going to become a pharmacist..but when I would tell ppl the edge would come off of it bc it felt like they were bored by it. The truth is, I was bored by it. Lolso I naturally interpreted the reactions of other people that way.
I really think what it is is that you don’t actually like your plans. You would rather be doing something else every day for the rest of your life. Your heart is telling you this is not what makes you happy.
November 10th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Maybe because when you tell people about them you feel you have already achieve them (feel proud or something like that) then the motive to do them will be gone.
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November 10th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Sounds like to me u think people look down on what you want to be.
That happened to me for a while, I was very excited that I was going to become a pharmacist..but when I would tell ppl the edge would come off of it bc it felt like they were bored by it. The truth is, I was bored by it. Lolso I naturally interpreted the reactions of other people that way.
I really think what it is is that you don’t actually like your plans. You would rather be doing something else every day for the rest of your life. Your heart is telling you this is not what makes you happy.
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November 10th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
Do not worry about why. Just take immediate focused inspired action. (I’m not intending to be abrasive here.)
Please consider this:
You can always move toward the deliberate creation of the life you deserve - one where you are pulling your higher self into your thoughts, actions and sense of appreciation. It’s about turning off cruise control, and turning on full 4-wheel drive while aware at the wheel. It’s about the passion of all that wish to be, do, and have. It’s about the energy and focus to bring your vision to life.
You see, you can bring wealth into all aspects of your consciousness. Yes, that includes attracting money - but also attracting the circumstances, events, people, information and health that will facilitate a continuous flow of wealth so that you may continually contribute good things to some aspect of humanity.
I recommend asking yourself these 8 empowering questions throughout everyday:
What am I truly grateful about in my life now?
What am I absolutely committed to in my life? How does that make me feel everyday?
Who do I really love? Who really loves me?
What have I given today? How can I give a bit more?
What meaningful thing did I learn today?
What have I accomplished that added to the quality of my life (and/or someone else’s life)?
How can I continually move toward the vision of my best life?
How can I stay focused, no matter what happens?
References :
http://www.selfattract.com/contact_us , SELF-attract